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You Got Skills

July 15th, 2009
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What do they mean by "skills"?

Happiness comes when we test our skills towards some meaningful purpose. -John Stossel

I never used the word “skills.” Maybe, once or twice, when someone was really good at basketball, yo-yoing, beer pong, or graffiti, I commented on their “mad skillz.” But, until recently, I had never even asked myself if I had any skills. The only time I even thought about skills was when a job application had a space for “Relevant Skills.”

Even as I was filling out the form, I didn’t really know what skills were. If someone asked me, “What are your transferable skills?” I would look at them blankly. If they would have asked about my “marketable skills,” my jaw would probably have hung open.  Whadda’ ya mean?

Yet, after I began researching proven job-hunting strategies and going after my , I realized a simple truth:

Knowing your skills and how to talk about them is essential if you want to find your .

Luckily, knowing your skills and laying the groundwork for talking about them is accomplished with a little time (2-6 hours), a few pieces of paper, and a willingness to reminisce about your past successes.

For me, this exercise was life-changing – it revealed the types of activities that I really loved and gave me the focus I needed to pursue my .

If you’re not convinced that you have any marketable or transferable skills, do not fear, you have skills you don’t even recognize. After all, anything that you can do well is a skill. Anything that you do well can be transferable. Anything you do well can be marketable.

You got skills. Get to know them.

This article describes, step by step, how to happily inventory and prioritize your top skills. There are links to the same tools that we use in the Workshop.  The process involves some very informal writing, and can take anywhere from 2-6 hours – more if you really get into it, but if that happens, you’ll be happy to spend the time doing it.

This article is part two of the Workshop Series. Part one

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Choosing a Dream Job: Everything on 1 Piece of Paper

July 1st, 2009

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Creating this one piece of paper is doable. And essential.

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25 amazing job-hunting tips from What Color is Your Parachute?

February 16th, 2009

He or she who gets hired is not necessarily the one who can do that job best; but, the one who knows the most about how to get hired.

-Richard Lathrop, Who’s Hiring Who?

Know then thyself,

Do not the Market scan

Until you’ve surveyed all You are,

Then you will have your plan.

-Alexander Pope (as paraphrased by Richard Nelson Bolles in the incredible What Color is Your Parachute?)

3 reasons the list below is not helpful.

Compared to actually reading the book.

  1. It doesn’t focus on the really, really, really valuable part of What Color is Your Parachute?The Flower Exercise. Know thyself, someone said. But how? Believe it or not, Richard Nelson Bolles explains, in a way that is completely accessible and not at all condescending, how we can know ourselves better. Nearly half of the book consists of simple exercises or questions to ask oneself.  My experience with the book allowed me to realize, or at the very least define, my skills, values, and preferences. Even further, it helped me communicate them to others.
  2. It isn’t nearly as gentle and encouraging as What Color is Your Parachute? I really, really love Mr. Bolles. If you buy his book, you will too.
  3. It is too gentle and encouraging. You won’t find a job by reading 25 tips. It might help, but it also might prolong bad habits and prevent you from doing the life-changing work of introspection and goal-setting. Bolles advises you to treat job-hunting as a full-time job. Me, I give you a list.

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Skim this book and find your Dream Job

January 25th, 2009

How the bible of career-hunting guides helped this non-believer

These days a lot of people are asking themselves, “How do I find a job?”

Simple:
Get a copy of What Color is Your Parachute?.
Buy it. Take it out from your library.

Richard Nelson Bolles has been writing and rewriting this perennially best -selling career and job hunting guide since 1970.

Last August, after an expected promotion became an unexpected (and indefinite) vacation, I decided to accept this sudden influx of free time (and unemployment checks) and use it to seek out my .

What Color is Your Parachute?, even the 1990′s version at my local library, changed my life. And I haven’t even read the whole thing.

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Ferriss’s Dreamlining Gets You Moving

January 10th, 2009

4 Dreams in 6-12 Months

Good Advice, Bad Jargon from the Author of The 4-hour Workweek

Timothy Ferriss - making up words, making people jealous.

Timothy Ferriss - making up words, making people jealous.

I don’t like some words. They feel embarrassing when you say them out loud – dietary supplement, self-help, interfacing, mingle. I can’t say or even write these words without cringing. Dreamlining is one of them.

It shouldn’t be legal to take any two words and slam them together…

Dreamlining, which I will henceforth refer to as DL, is a concept in Timothy Ferriss’s The 4-hour Workweek. DL has gotten a lot of tread on the internets and it is not because of the cool name.

Obviously, as you can infer from the two original words which were so rudely stuck together, DL is about putting a timeline to your dreams. Carpe diem plays a big part here, the recommendation being either a six-month or one-year timeline.

DL is also about putting a dollar sign on your dreams.

By doing a little math, you can bring that dream out of fantasy land, chop it up into little chunks, and start working on it today. Read more…

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